The Bible don't tell us to be "nice" or "love everybody". I believe that the church adopted their "nice" eastern philosophy from Hinduism thanks to the music group the Beatles. I can't stand them thankfully half of them have died but the damage is already been done. The church has discarded their bibles and settled for what sounds good instead of what's right. Their pastors led them down this road like the pied pipers that they are. Leading their sheep to slaughter.
I've been reading and thinking about Gideon's army of 300 in Judges 7, to fight the Amakalites (giants nephilium). Gideon started out with 32,000 and God told him he had too many soldiers. You'd think too many warriors is a good thing but Gods not looking for numbers but quality people sold out to him. Jesus said in Matthew 22:14, many are called but few are chosen. Think about that one for awhile.
Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.
It's a harder path to stand up for truth even if it's just your own truth. It's much easier to go along with the crowd compromise. Compromise another word not found in the Bible.
God don't need "nice" he needs warriors. There's enough useless nice so called Christians who can't fight their way out of a paper box.
We need to take up the sword of authority that Jesus or Yeshua has given to or anointed us with, put on our armour of God and fight. We have been beat down and betrayed by those we trusted and loved. We see where love, forgiveness and nice got us.